Time and Time again

Im unsure of how i really feel many emotions and every day i seem to feel a different way or have a different outlook. I cannot tell if it's real or complete game. My ex said and did things that he says but slightly different. I do not want to relive it again, it's a situation Im most definitely trying to not be in again. I feel like the odds are in my favor and that once again i will not get what I want... so do I back away from the situation or do me and continue. the time, energy, and money i invested over 8 months for it to only be a learning experience is a lot to bear AGAIN. Ive got to find a away to get out of this little rut. I wish I could be with the person I want at the moment.... I know im not the only one who feels this way... Happy Memorial Day *deuces*

-McGee

"Rehab" by Rihanna

I'm at one of the lowest points right now... Burying my mother stirs up emotions I've not really dealt with... Its so hard and I can't really turn to anyone because has endured the things that I and am going through. The guy who I thought I was talking to has really hurt my feelings. I'm upset with myself more than anything... He reminds me more of my ex than anything right now. He takes and takes and NEVER gives. I've allowed him to walk over me. He's done nothing but take advantage of me. Dudes can be real ass Holes nowadays its ridiculous and I keep mixing and mingling with them... I need Lord to give me the strength I need to get over my current situation unless a miraculous miracle happens and he changes when it comes to me... Its so hard I'm tired of allowing myself to get hurt. I'm not in love thank God but I do care... I wish I didn't have feelings and things didn't bother me. I don't want to Have feelings anymore I don't like being hurt or disappointed enough is enough... 5 years of the same shit and nothing has changed absolutely nothing... There are too many guys that just don't care that are that selfish... It amazes me. I really want to be emotionless and neutral about everything. I don't want to care about him I don't want to like him... I want him to really care and show it but I'm almost certain that he won't... I feel like I put 8 months of time, energy, and money into somethin that will never prosper and into someone who does not care abo0ut me in the same light way I care about him. My heart is too big and I care waaaaay to much. Im patiently waiting for someone to sweep me off my feet who isn't like anyone Ive dealt with already. Ive got two guys that want to get to know me and take me out but I cannot do it... I need God to help me with this one. After you've been treated a certain way for MANY years by various guys and people close to you it's real hard to break the cycle it really is and its a gradual process... Its about self love and ill admit Im not quite there yet but Im getting there...

Power

What do you think about this statement?:

"The power in a relationship lies with the one who cares less"...true statement- Gabbie Denise (FB)

Men Lie More Than Woman

Poll Reveals Men Lie More Than Women

Thursday, May 20, 2010 | 6:30 AM

by Bobbi Misick

We've heard the phrase "men lie," time and time again, but we never had any evidence to back it up. A new poll released by the U.K.'s Science Museum gives new reason for you to question the words coming out of your man's mouth.

According to the poll, men tell lies three times a day while women lie twice a day. That means a man is likely to tell 364 more lies than a woman in one year. The male's higher inclination to fibbing could be because he's more comfortable hiding the truth. Seventy percent of men feel guilty when they lie, compared to 82 percent of women.

And just what are our guys lying about? It's unlikely that the result would be the same in the U.S. but the top male lie in Britain is, "I didn't have that much too drink." "I'm on my way," and "You've lost weight" are also in the list of top ten lies that men tell. As far as we go, the top lie that women in the U.K. tell is, "Nothing's wrong, I'm fine." Somehow, we think that one's universal.

Men lie:
1. saying "I love you"
2. To get out of something
3. To get sex
4. Keep from hurting your feelings
5. Avoid conflict

Ask and You Shall Receive

My emotions are outraged... Mothers day was yesterday so of course that played a role in everything but I just want to be happy... that is all just happy in every aspect of my life. Everything else seems to be in order except well you guess it the love life. Libra's are prone for love and relationships or at least some. I want someone that is my best friend, someone to love me unconditionally, and someone who can appreciate me and the things I do. Im not looking for someone who is perfect or who fits every aspect of my "list". I can learn to love someone who isn't perfect perfectly. As i listen to others who are in relationships and or married I have learned a lot. I am ready for to be with someone (preferably the one ive been talkin to for the past 8 months) if God is willing. I pray about it every night for that one person to find me. Either its going to happen, I have to wait, or there is something else for me in store. Sometimes I wonder if he isn't the one if im blocking my blessings by still allowing myself to continue to see where things go. I haven't asked for a sign or that I remember but I see things and my intuition sometimes alerts me but then a situation occurs and it seems like everything is ok and that I should ignore the signs... I see potential in this person and I have hopes that maybe with time things will develop in a positive way and happen on there own. Its all a big blur to me right now... I will continue to pray and hope that I will receive what it is that I have asked God for...

-McGee

Why Can't a Successful Black Woman Find a Man?

Nightline Face-Off: Why Can't a Successful Black Woman Find a Man?

The "Face-Off" is a recurring series where opposing sides debate hot topics.

In the seventh installment of the series, Sherri Shepherd, co-host of ABC's "The View," and Jacque Reid, star of VH1's "Let's Talk About Pep," will debate "CSI" star Hill Harper, and Jimi Izrael, author of "The Denzel Principle" on why many successful black women cannot find a man. Are black women's expectations too high? Who's to blame, black women or black men?


*to watch simply click on the title of this blog post: Why Can't a Successful Black Woman Find a Man?*


-Mcgee

ARE YOU SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

ARE YOU SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

Are you inadvertently steering your relationship toward doom? Here are five practices you should avoid …



You’re frequently disappointed by his gifts or gestures. OK, so your tastes don’t exactly match. You may need to steer him toward better gifts in the future, but remember that the important part is the thought, kind gesture, “thinking of you” that he is demonstrating.

You focus on his faults. Mr. Right is called “Mr. Right” not “Mr. Perfect.” Lasting relationships mean learning to embrace even the things you “hate” about him. Love the package with all its flaws and you might find they can love you for who you are too.

You’re too available or have drastically changed your routine for him. Yep, you’re in love — great! But rather than spend every waking minute together, let a little absence make the heart grow fonder by having a life!

You’ve stopped getting glam for your dates … ever. Sure you’d skip the razor if it were just you and the girls … but it’s NOT! There are plenty of cozy nights on the couch in sweats — so when you go out, go all out (or at least a little!) Doll up and remind him what a babe you can be.

You discuss your relationship too much. It’s official. You’re calling each other “boyfriend/girlfriend.” But beware — obsessing, over-talking and discussing the details of “what this is” can turn it into “what it’s not anymore” (a relationship) quickly.
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