ARE YOU SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

ARE YOU SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

Are you inadvertently steering your relationship toward doom? Here are five practices you should avoid …



You’re frequently disappointed by his gifts or gestures. OK, so your tastes don’t exactly match. You may need to steer him toward better gifts in the future, but remember that the important part is the thought, kind gesture, “thinking of you” that he is demonstrating.

You focus on his faults. Mr. Right is called “Mr. Right” not “Mr. Perfect.” Lasting relationships mean learning to embrace even the things you “hate” about him. Love the package with all its flaws and you might find they can love you for who you are too.

You’re too available or have drastically changed your routine for him. Yep, you’re in love — great! But rather than spend every waking minute together, let a little absence make the heart grow fonder by having a life!

You’ve stopped getting glam for your dates … ever. Sure you’d skip the razor if it were just you and the girls … but it’s NOT! There are plenty of cozy nights on the couch in sweats — so when you go out, go all out (or at least a little!) Doll up and remind him what a babe you can be.

You discuss your relationship too much. It’s official. You’re calling each other “boyfriend/girlfriend.” But beware — obsessing, over-talking and discussing the details of “what this is” can turn it into “what it’s not anymore” (a relationship) quickly.
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