Hell Date

I went on a date last night I think it's my fourth date this year :-) and as the night progressed I was reminded more and more of why I hate going on dates... I was completely uninterested in what he had to say, well he wasn't saying much of anything actually. I can't tell you too much about him... but He carried on about his job and the great discounts he receives as a Marriott employee and even talked about the credit card limit... He talked to me about Jersey and mind you when we first met we established that that's where I was from and then in the mist of the conversation says "your from Jersey" and i just gave him this look and was like yes i told you that already only for him to say oh yeah that's one of the things I liked about you o_O He talked about dancing salsa and i told him I enjoyed classical dance (ballet, tap, & Jazz) he didn't have a clue what jazz dance was as he refereed it to something he listened to when he was cooking lol. Then he talked about his first impression with me and how pretty I am and how much he likes my short hair and how I came off to him and even called me boogie *pause* for the record I am NOT boogie and when I asked why he called me boogie he said because I don't like to go to clubs but then later said he liked that about me... I'm a bit confused. I really don't like when people try to change me... I'm not a movie buff and he is and he told me that I'm going to MAKE you like movies... in the back of my mind I'm thinking no the hell your not. He was trying to get me to drink and was disappointed when I told him no... we discussed this on several occasions I DO NOT drink! Not even a glass of wine... NO... shit leave me alone. He carried on more about his job and his hotel discounts and that he wants to take me to Hilton Head... and in my head I'm thinking that means I have to be with you sleep in the same room if not the same bed with you... ummmm I'm straight on that dude doesn't even know me! He asked me ho I felt about him and I told him that's he's a nice guy and that right now I'm just getting out of a situation and he immediately got defensive and was like I'm not tryin to pressure you into a relationship before I could EVEN finish what I was saying. Then says that we can just be cool and hang out and then maybe be friends with benefits or we could play to by ear and see where it goes or if it turns into a relationship... in the the back of my mind all I could think of was how to get away from him. We were waiting on more food he ordered and it felt like it took them an hour to get it too us. The quicker they gave us our food the quicker I could get the hell out of there and be on my way. Food came and we left FINALLY. As he was walking me to my car he grabbed my hand... I cringed im NOT a touchy feely person when I first meet someone that was a bit much for me I wasn't ready for that. But what makes it worse is once again we established I do NOT like cigarettes and what does he do takes one out and smokes it. I fan the smoke away from my face and he puts it out... Im thinking why would you do that Im allergic to smoke you dumb-ass... I've never been more excited to get to my car... I don't want to go on dates anymore. It wasn't THAT bad of a date but I can honestly say I won't be going out with him again... What sucks is that he is a good handsome guy but Im just not that into him :-( NEXT!!!!

-Mcgee