It amazes me that the women that are so confident in that their boyfriends or husbands would not cheat on them are the main ones who significant other are cheating on them. Let’s take Gloria on basketball wives for example she always said Matt would never cheat on her so on and so forth and well he did. While the woman who are insecure about there relationship are the ones whose boyfriends and husbands are actually faithful… now im not saying this is true in all relationships but I’ve watched and I’ve listened to those in relationships… Ive not experienced being the other woman but the opportunity has presented itself on more than one occasion.“ What you won’t do another one will” and please believe it’s true!! Cheating does not discriminate whether you’re in a relationship, engaged, or married it doesn’t matter. Please your partners and pay attention to there needs and tend to them! I see people going out and finding side pieces and hear about it all the time… Ive been approached by people who are in relationships saying they are happy with there relationship but need some spice in there life and was hoping I can be that person to provide that spice… Ive also been in a situation with someone who proposed to there girlfriend and about a month later had been begging to get in my pants and this continued well after they were married. Ive been approached by a well known local celebrity who has asked me to join them in there hotel room after a night of partying on several occasions who is “happily” married with a kids. Oh and lets not forget the basketball player and music artists. And I believe that even though my ex boyfriend and I were in a “relationship” once the relationship had ended the truth came out and it was if I was the woman on the side to a certain degree. Cheating has been going on for years and I doubt it’s going anywhere and I truly believe its becoming second nature unfortunately… There have been plenty of songs about cheating and being the side piece, for instance Fabulous says in one of his songs, “a meal ain’t complete without something on the side”. Pleasure P in his song Boyfriend #2, “I don’t mind being the dude on the side, ya dig”. Are people really ok with being a side piece? I know some people just do not care. In a article I read according to the article sometimes the “jump offs” have it better than the wifey. If other woman or men weren’t so comfortable with being a side piece then maybe there would be less cheating. Why would you want to share another mans woman or another mans wife? Does the fact that women out number men play a role in this? I know in Atlanta there are many beautiful women so men have many options so I believe some look for something better than the great they already have. Then there are others who choose not to settle down and sometimes string women along! I think the fact that there aren’t enough men to go around women and men settle for being a side piece. I guess something is better than not having anyone at all for some.
-McGee
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