Finding NEMO

It's been a long time since I have posted a blog but during my hiatus I have been exploring the exact thing we women obsess over.. the L word (not lesbianism) but LOVE. Love is simply in expressible through words. I hear it all the time, people say it all the time, people base movies on it and books alike, but I feel like it is every rarely ever truly exposed in its simplest form.

Love is NOT supposed to HURT
NOR does it LIE
Love doesn't Retaliate
NOR does it stress the small things.
Love is not an emotion, because emotions change.


I think we often make the mistake of assuming how love is supposed to feel and confuse it with lust, conformity, and vengeance, although it seems far fetched it's true.



Well then... What is it? I am by no means the ideal candidate to define this but I've experienced enough to understand it.

LOVE is a mentality that is subject to the emotional attachments of happiness, sensibility, compassion, sympathy and consideration but is something that is developed over time as it reaches its maturity it becomes fixed.

Considering that LOVE develops in the mind and not the heart, I Believe we women should LOVE with our mind and CARE with our hearts.

We must learn to not let moments in time dictate how much we love a person but think candidly about the CHARACTER in which we are subjecting ourselves to have a mental connection with.

The more you know, the more you understand = The more you know a person's true character, the more you understand why you love them.

Well that's all i have for now..sort of a rambling...but a true one indeed... more to come..

-Beanz