false alarm

Sooooo let's forget about the last post I was completly wrong! I was hurt and confused. I asked my friends for thier advice and 1. Reccommended I bring up the situation to him hypothetically and get his reaction. The other friend suggested I just flat out ask him about the girl. Both opinions were helpful. I just sucked it up and asked him about the situation and about the girl. He broke it down and was like noooo its just his friend and he said it in a joking way. He then confessed that he was scared he was losing me. I tell most men upfront about my run away bride like syndrome. He was more worried that I didn't want him anymore. He had good reason to feel that way I had been soo busy during the week that I wasn't the most responsive. I had a bad attitude because of my tiresome week and I took it out on him, earlier in the day. We talked everything over and came to the conclusion that communication definitely is the glue in most relationships. I also learned that sometimes to be in a relationship you have to let go of your past, you can't generalize all men, they are truely not the same. Every experience with a man is different and if there is a pattern of negativity then you have to check your behavior too. I mean I'm glad I can breathe a sigh of relief. He does love me and he shows and tells me it everyday. I guess I just have to get use to the good treatment.