Alone but not lonely

So I've come to realize that society has brainwashed us. We have become self-destuctive hopeless romantics. We believe that there is someone out there waiting for us. Someone that will love us forever and always. We all believe we have a love story waiting to happen. Well I want to tell happily ever tales to F off. How dare you create a false sense of reality for me and expose me to ideals that are not my own. That always me to let me settle for a man who's only "okay" or allow me to convince myself that my bar should be so high that not even the great lord himself could reach it. How dare I believe your lies and fables...that have convinced me that a simple kiss will take all my pain away..

Women..hear me now..we do not need a man to validate who we are as women..there is no prince charming..we must first love ourselves, find ourselves, need ourselves, know ourselves, and know our God before we even think of getting with a man...it is then that we will be discerning enough to know what a good man is and who he is..where we can truely disect a man's true character and decide whether he is even worthy to receive our time...

I'm fed up with the thoughts that having a man or talking to someone is the most important situation of our lives..its not and we need to realize that...I'm about to take a power trip and take a dose of self love before I even continue with these stupid games I play with these men...ughhh..I'm just fine being alone...when you wonder why you don't have a man just understand that you are being sheilded from the wolves out there that prey on the vunerable and desperate hopeless romantics...

I remember this one guy told me...he purposely plays with girls..once he knows that they are into him..then bam its like a switch turns on and uses different skills to see how he can manipulate them...even further...ladies I promise you this exerpt is true to life..you have to be careful out there because some guys really don't give a rats ass..and when you don't love yourself to see these men for what they are you become the next victim..

You become the hopeless romantic on the end of the voicemail to the guy who never called you back when he said he would..you become the victim of the guy who makes false promises to keep you around for his entertainment..and you miss out on the guy who truely does want to love you..because you've given so much energy into something that wasn't meant for you to begin with...and then you blame yourself and the cycle begins again...

Chill out..and be fine with being alone..no matter how long its been..don't let these guys get the best of you..once you know the man you want...who complements you..reach out to him...until then don't just let anyone get on your bus..

That's all for now...

Beanz